2019 New Direction

For 2019, I’ve chosen to go a different direction with my career. I know it’s hard to keep up with exactly what I’m doing at which time, as we often release scenes months, or even a year, after we’ve shot them. So it’s gone virtually unnoticed that I haven’t been…

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Navigating the big hungry porn machine

This is a difficult topic for me. I’ve shared little pieces of my experience with a couple of people that I trust, but I’ve never told this story in its entirety. I am the type of person who, upon having a powerful experience, reflects for a long time. It’s taken…

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Internet Etiquette & My Preferences

I’m writing this post because whenever I mention on Twitter that a particular comment has offended me, or that I don’t like something that was said to me, I always have at least a few guys saying that’s why they don’t interact with me. Honestly, those comments are almost as…

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Chastity

NOTE: I originally posted this blog on tumblr in 2013. A sub recently asked Me how I feel about chastity. That’s a vague question, with vague terms, but I think I know where he was going with it. If you want to hear “I love chastity! I’ll lock you up…

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Serving Me Online

I’ve recently had some encounters with subs who don’t seem to know what it means to serve a Domme online. I admit that I don’t have the perfect definition of an online D/s relationship, and it does vary as do personalities of the participants. However, I think there are a…

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